bossiness

At home,
"Nan, you should stop playing games and help mum do some work, she is asking you now.."
"Nan, you shouldn't talk back to dad like that, you can't say things properly izit.."
"Eh, you should... you shouldn't..."

Between friends,
"Stand beside a bit la...", " wait wait...", "faster la...".

That's what and how I always talk to my brother or sometimes, to my friends.

I didn't really realize it until last year my friend pointed out this to me.

Last week, when I wanted to give a 'talk' to my brother and then I came across that whenever my parents or sister ask me to help them to do something, I will give excuses.

Despite how your excuses sounds so logically convincing, they are still excuses.

Consciously or not, I always do this.

Annoying?
Yes.
How about change for a bit?
I'm trying.